Parent Coaching & Circle of Security™

Empowering Confident, Connected Parenting

Parenting is both rewarding and challenging. It brings joy but can also cause self-doubt and exhaustion. In this journey, we discover ourselves, reflect on our childhood experiences, and envision our children’s futures.

At its best, parenting offers pride and fulfillment. At its hardest, it tests our resilience. Remember, you're not alone; there’s no set guide. It’s about being your best for your children. Together, we’ll celebrate your successes and navigate the tough times.

About Me

As a registered nurse, parent coach, and clinical educator with over 30 years of experience, I understand the unique demands of parenting. As a mother of three boys, including premature twins, I’ve walked this road myself.

With advanced qualifications in nursing for child and parental health, life coaching, and therapeutic modalities like NLP, Hypnotherapy, Havening, and Circle of Security™, I bring a compassionate, holistic approach to parent coaching. My goal is to help you move beyond surface-level strategies to create meaningful, lasting growth for you and your children.

Parent Coaching

Parent coaching is not about "fixing" problems; it's about giving you the tools and insights to parent with clarity, confidence, and compassion. It offers support in managing difficult behaviors, building strong connections, and regulating emotions.

What Can Parent Coaching Help With?

  • Feeling Stuck: Create actionable plans for family harmony.

  • Understanding Behavior: Learn to manage emotions effectively.

  • Communication Skills: Build open, trusting relationships with your children.

  • Self-Care: Gain the energy and focus to be present for your family.

  • Self-Esteem: Reconnect with your strengths and purpose as a parent.

    What is Circle of Security™ Parenting?

It’s a eight-week course designed to deepen your understanding of your child’s emotional needs and strengthen your bond.

Benefits of the Program

  • How to read your child’s emotional cues.

  • Strategies for supporting their ability to manage emotions.

  • Tools to enhance their self-esteem.

  • Insight into how your own early experiences shape your parenting.

Course Details:

  • Duration: 7/8 weeks (online or in-person in Nelson).

  • Ideal for parents of children aged 0–6.

  • Group and 1:1 (intensive) options available.

What to Expect in Your Sessions

  • Flexible Format: Choose from single sessions, packages, or group workshops.

  • Personalized Approach: Tailored to your unique goals and challenges.

  • Actionable Steps: Leave each session with clear strategies to create lasting change.

Frequently Asked Questions

Who is Parent Coaching For?
Parent coaching is for anyone looking to strengthen relationships with their children, navigate challenges with confidence, or grow as a caregiver.

Do I Need a Fixed Number of Sessions?
There’s no one-size-fits-all. Some clients benefit from a single session, while others prefer ongoing support.

Can I Bring My Child to the Session?
Parent coaching is your space for reflection and growth. Nursing babies are welcome, but we recommend arranging care for older children.

My Services & Pricing

Individual and Group Coaching Options

  • Parent Coaching: NZ$120-150 for 60 minutes (online or in-person).

  • Circle of Security™ Program: NZ$250–NZ$450 for group sessions; NZ$120–NZ$150 for 1:1 sessions.

  • Other Services: Life Coaching, Hypnotherapy, Havening, Reiki, and Mindfulness to complement your parenting journey.

What Parents Are Saying

“Absolutely fantastic course that has changed the way I view all relationships in my life. I have already seen significant positive changes over the duration of the course and can see this extending further as I am constantly more aware”.

“I am so grateful to have had the opportunity to attend this course. It strengthens my knowledge of how to react/respond in all relationships. I feel I have been empowered - had my knowledge affirmed and had the opportunity to learn so much”.

“I feel more confident in and know I am a good enough mother”.

“Very helpful, informative, and encouraging. Eye-opening! I love that the concepts are quite simple, meaning they are easily accessible in day-to-day life”.

“I really appreciate being able to do this online as I would have delayed doing the course if that was not possible. I found the 3rd and the 4th sessions especially helpful and interesting, but the first two definitely set the base to be able to get a deeper understanding of the concept”.

“A wonderful course and facilitated extremely well by Nicky”.

Contact Me

Ready to begin your journey toward confident, connected parenting?

  • Book your first session or explore upcoming courses.

  • [coaching@nickycooper.life]

  • Parent Coaching and Circle of Security is available online or in-person (Nelson, NZ)